70s: Raising a Baby

"A handful of old bones, what's so beautiful, no matter how you look at it."

Ye Jinzhi was a bit bitter to hear this. Nowadays, people are getting married early. Even if their sons are married and they all have grandchildren, they are only in their fifties.

In later generations, it is not old at all, it is middle-aged, but today's people are old because they do farm work all year round, are in the fields all year round, and are exposed to the wind and the sun every day.

Their family barely interacts with people, and only a few families have the most contact.

Maybe Father Ye helped them a lot, but the families they contacted took good care of them anyway.

After Father Ye resigned from Aunt Lin, who had been helping them cook, because she was afraid that some gossip would reach her ears.

After Uncle Yuan found out, he would ask Aunt Yuan to do more, and he would bring it over in person.

Every time the food delivered is very good, at least those dishes in the countryside are rarely eaten unless it is a festival.

Every time Father Ye asked for money, they didn't want it. There was no other way, so they had to send the family's money to him until he could cook.

Sometimes, Father Ye had to go out because of some things in the capital or other things, and when it was inconvenient to take her with him, he entrusted her to Uncle Yuan's house.

Because Yuan Jianguo's health was not good, they didn't chat for long, he couldn't hold it anymore and needed to rest.

It was getting late when I came out of the hospital.

"Mom, shall we play for a while?"

Seeing that they were about to arrive at the hostel, the four children refused to leave, and stood on the spot to discuss with Ye Jinzhi.

How could Ye Jinzhi agree? She was actually very tired. She barely slept last night and didn't rest much during the day.

"Let's play again tomorrow, okay?" Ye Jinzhi just wanted to hurry back and rest.

A few children looked at their mother's firmness and knew that there was no room for reversal, so they nodded and sighed.

"Since you still have energy, then do your homework." Ye Jinzhi suddenly remembered that they hadn't done their homework for a long time.

The three children froze when they heard this.

"Oh, my stomach hurts a little."

Ah Hao bent over and put his hands on his stomach, his face pretending to be in pain, but those eyes kept glancing at Ye Jinzhi, trying to soften her heart.

"Humph." Ye Jinzhi glanced at him. If he wanted to perform this kind of acting in front of her, would he be treating her as a fool.

Ignore him and leave.

If they have the energy, just act, she doesn't have the energy to play with them.

"Mom, I'm hungry, my stomach is screaming."

As soon as Ayan left the hospital, he struggled not to hold her and insisted on walking by himself.

At a young age, he still didn't understand why his brother acted like this when he heard his homework, but he felt that it should be something bad.

Seeing that his mother was about to leave, he quickly trotted over and took her mother's hand.

She raised her little face and looked at Ye Jinzhi innocently, fearing that she would not believe it, she even took off her clothes to show her.

"Then let's go back and make milk powder for you." Ye Jinzhi quickly grabbed his hand, now the weather has started to get colder, especially at night.

Don't just take off her clothes and catch a cold and have a fever again, she can't bear it anymore.

Thinking of how many times this happened to him, she would also collapse within a few days.

"Well, Ayan is obedient." Listening to her mother's agreement, Ayan smiled and looked well-behaved.

Ye Jinzhi laughed. Out of the corner of his eye, he saw the three children staring at Ayan closely. If it wasn't for the fact that he was just recovering from his illness and was as poor as he was, his brothers would have given him an education.

"Mom, Mom, I'm good too, and I'll go back too." A Xu also quickly stepped forward to express his determination, pulling Ye Jinzhi's hand and shaking it.

"Yes, Axu is also good." Ye Jinzhi took his little hand and nodded with a smile on his lips.

midnight.

Ye Jinzhi was really frightened by Ayan. He had to check on several children every few hours, for fear of the same situation as Ayan.

Fortunately, nothing happened all night, and the four children slept well that night, except that Ayan had to go to the toilet in the middle of the night, and Ye Jinzhi dazedly carried him to the toilet.

A few children were very energetic early in the morning, and they didn't need to exercise in the morning, so the three children had nowhere to go, and they actually started to practice in the room by themselves.

I don't know who mentioned it, but they were running in the room. It was such a big room, and they came to an end within a few steps.

Ye Jinzhi was dizzy when he saw it, the three children were still enjoying each other, they couldn't breathe, and they were talking and laughing with everyone.

Ayan watched his brothers running around the room. He, who had been relying on him and refused to get up, also sat on the bed and stared at them.

"Do you want to be with Ayan?" Ye Jinzhi could see the longing in his eyes and asked tentatively.

Sure enough, as soon as she finished speaking, Ayan's eyes lit up and he hurriedly stretched out his hands.

"Get up, get up."

After changing clothes, the three children changed another way. Ayan couldn't help but turn around to look, his little face was surprised, he had never seen it before, it was very novel.

But it should be only Ayan who finds it novel. Like when they practice every morning, Ayan often hasn't woken up yet, so naturally he hasn't seen it.

Speaking of this, Ye Jinzhi suddenly realized that although Ayan has lived in the compound for so long, he has not visited many places yet.

"Okay, let's go play." After getting dressed, Ye Jinzhi couldn't help pinching on his butt, it was so comfortable.

The child's buttocks are soft and full of meat, and they don't feel good.

"Yeah." A Yan first stood by and watched the three older brothers squatting on horseback, and then squatted down to watch when he was tired from standing.

"Would you like to join Ayan?" Ye Jinzhi said when he saw that he was so curious.

Seeing his brother's face turning red, Ayan hesitated for a moment, then nodded.

Standing beside the three older brothers, he learned to raise his hands and bend his feet slowly.

Ayan is still a little familiar with squatting. When the three older brothers were punished by their father, he also went along to join in the fun, although he was sitting on the ground playing in the end.

Ayan's body is not fully developed yet, and his strength is still small, so his center of gravity is unsteady after standing for less than a minute, and he sits on the ground.

Fortunately, Ye Jinzhi had the experience last time and put something under his feet to prevent him from being unable to sit down.

"Do you want to come again?"

Ye Jinzhi watched him sit down and wanted to help him up.

Ayan waved his hand, "No."

But he didn't want to stand up and just sat there looking at the three brothers.

Ye Jinzhi didn't bother him when he saw how hard he was reading. She took the book and read it next to her, occasionally taking a look from the corner of her eye.

"Don't forget to relax your muscles." Ye Jinzhi reminded after seeing that they had finished exercising.

I haven't exercised for so long, and suddenly I start to practice, my body will definitely not adapt to it, if I don't relax, my back will be sore tomorrow.

The three children heard the sound, and the buttocks that were about to sit down stood up again, pulling their legs and stretching their arms.

Fortunately, there is no one under them, otherwise, like them, people are appointed to run up to them to trouble them.

After breakfast, Ye Jinzhi took a few children to the hospital to get Ayan's examination report, and took a look at Uncle Yuan by the way.

Their train this afternoon has been delayed for so long, they have to go back soon, and A Zhao still has to go to school.

"You play with your uncle for a while outside, and your mother will bring your brother in and come out soon, okay?"

Ye Jinzhi didn't want to take the three children in. The hospital was always bad, and there were still many bacteria.

Children's resistance is not so good, and they are prone to get sick if they accidentally come into contact with something.

"Mom, then you have to hurry." The three children were a little reluctant, but they couldn't resist the majesty of their mother, and Ah Hao puffed out his cheeks.

"it is good."

"Brother." Ayan didn't realize that his brother didn't come in with them.

Halfway through, I found that there was no one around, I turned to see my brother and they didn't come in, and shouted outside.

Ye Jinzhi put him down and squeezed his fleshy fat hand.

"Brother is waiting for Ayan outside, we will go out soon." Ye Jinzhi coaxed him.

I went to the nurse's station and asked where to get the report. When I got the report, even though Ye Jinzhi didn't understand many technical terms, she still understood others.

"Go, brother."

The hospital smelled of disinfectant all the year round. As soon as Ayan came in, especially when he saw the white coat, he buried his face in Ye Jinzhi's chest.

"Let's see the doctor's uncle again, shall we go?" Ye Jinzhi hugged him and shook it.

Although it's not a big deal, but to be on the safe side, I went to see the doctor yesterday.

"Yeah." Ayan nodded sullenly, looking reluctantly.

"Come on, it'll be fine soon, okay, mommy reward Ayan for eating candy, okay?" Ye Jinzhi liked his little expression tightly, and kissed him on the cheek.

Sure enough, only sweet candies can heal the mood, Ayan heard the spirit of candy eaters visible to the naked eye.

Lifting up from Ye Jinzhi's chest, with messy hair, he looked at Ye Jinzhi with surprise.

"Candy, sweet."

Ye Jinzhi raised his hand to help him trim his hair, and followed his words: "Yes, sweet candy, does Ayan like to eat it?"

"Yes, Ayan likes sweet ones." Ayan nodded vigorously and smiled sweetly at Ye Jinzhi, showing his little deciduous teeth.

While they were talking, they had already arrived at the door of the pediatrics department. Ye Jinzhi was taken aback when he saw the crowd in front of him. There were so many people.

"Let's wait here for a while."

Ye Jinzhi held Ayan to the side and waited. There were so many people there that you could smell it from a distance.

"Yeah." Ayan nodded, regardless of whether he understood it or not.

"Ayan wants to come down and go by himself?" Ye Jin's hand was a little sour, and it might take a long time to see the posture.

"Get down, get down." He kicked his legs and signaled to get down.

"Huh." Holding a child is really a work of strength. You must know that when I first came, I couldn't hold on for long. Who would have thought that she could hold her for so long now.

Holding a child can really exercise a person's arm strength, Ye Jinzhi clearly feels that his strength is much stronger than before.

"The couple is here again."

Ye Jinzhi was coaxing Ayan, and after waiting too long, Ayan had no patience and was clamoring to go out.

I heard a few nurses chatting.

At first she didn't care, after all, it had nothing to do with herself.

"Hey, what's wrong with Sister Wang's child?" asked a clearly younger nurse.

"I don't know. I heard what it is called autism, and I took it to the capital for a checkup."

The words "autism" reached Ye Jinzhi's ears, making Ye Jinzhi feel a little familiar.

"Autism, what's wrong with this?" Another voice joined.

"If you want me to say, there is a problem with the brain, where does autism come from," a sharp voice inserted.

Ye Jinzhi frowned unconsciously after hearing this, and even the man standing by the side couldn't listen.

"Miss?" the man asked softly.

"I've worked in the hospital for so many years, but I've never heard of autism, what's wrong with it." The voice was getting farther and farther away.

"Let's go." Ye Jinyi looked down and saw Ayan's eyes wide open, listening intently.

"Do you understand? Listen so seriously." Ye Jinzhi rubbed his head and teased.

Ayan was touched by his mother, and he looked up at her with joy.

The place where they were standing happened to be at a corner, and Ye Jinzhi was about to leave as soon as he picked up Ayan.

Feeling someone walking by beside him, Ye Jinzhi looked up and glanced casually, and was a little stunned.

"That clothes?" It looked familiar, as if the children at home had worn it.

The man also followed her line of sight, squinting.

"It won't be so coincidental," Ye Jinzhi said in a low voice.

"Mom." Ayan shook her body when she saw that her mother was standing still.

"Ah, let's go." There were already quite a few people around.

There was a chair in front of the door. Ye Jinzhi saw that there was a vacant seat and took Ayan to sit down. There were a few people in front of him.

But there are times when the world is so small that we meet again, and it is right beside us.

It was convenient for Ye Jinzhi to observe the child, wondering if it was really such a coincidence.

I was embarrassed to keep staring at the child, but Ye Jinzhi could clearly feel that the child was the autistic child that Shaochen Yuan mentioned earlier.

A child with autism looks no different from an ordinary child, but if you pay attention, you can find that the child is different from an ordinary child.

Ordinary children are generally noisy, even if they are good, they are not the same as children with autism.

However, the child's parents loved him very much and should have paid a lot of effort.

Ye Jinzhi has not seen autistic children before. Almost every company will donate to the society. Their company has donated to those special institutions before.

She also went to see it specially. She worked as a volunteer for a period of time and had close contact with those children.

The children who will be there are almost always abandoned, so they are more ill than those with their parents.

They are completely immersed in their own world, unresponsive to everything that is happening outside.

But Ye Jinzhi took a look at that child. Although he was immersed in his own world, he still reacted to his parents calling his name. The situation was much better than many children she had seen.

"Mother."

Ye Jinzhi bowed his head, wondering what this kid is going to do.

"Brother." Ayan pointed to the child next to him and said with a smile.

Just as he was talking, the child turned his head and looked over.