Chapter 705 Frequently Asked Questions!!

“That’s it, Luo Shao, aren’t you in love now?”

“Um.”

We are in love, what’s wrong?”

“Then after you get married, will you live with your parents?”

This question asked by the reporter, not only Luo Shao, but also Guan Xiaotong shook his head:”No!”

“ah? If Xiao Tong is in love, won’t he live with his parents?”

“When you are in love, of course you will live with your parents.”

“But you said it’s not after marriage?”

Guan Xiaotong said with a smile.

“If you fall in love, will you still live with your parents?”

The reporter continued to ask

“It won’t happen after high school, and I will go to college, because I don’t have to wake up early and stay late at night to go to school. By then, I won’t live with my parents, but I will often go back to eat with my parents, or stay at my parents’ house for a few days.”

Guan Xiaotong’s answer, Luo Shao thinks it is the same.

“After marriage, I will never live with my parents.”

Luo Shao said with certainty.

“why?”

The reporter asked Luo Shao why

“It’s inconvenient; my parents are Xiao Tong’s parents, or they are the parents of my other girlfriends.”

“Take Xiaotong and I as an example. Now that we are in love, we are still living at our parents’ house. To be honest, we are really not used to it. When we want to be intimate, we have to avoid our parents, otherwise we are afraid of being embarrassed.”

Luo Shao expressed his personal understanding

“In fact, if we live together as a young couple, I can be very casual at home. As for dressing, it doesn’t matter if I walk around the house wearing a pair of underpants and my upper body is bare. My wife will see it if she sees it, but my parents or father-in-law will not. If your mother-in-law is here, then you have to dress appropriately.”

“Or my wife, too, living with my parents”

“This thing is also difficult to do; at home, my wife’s pajamas cannot be too revealing or too casual.”

“Moreover, there will inevitably be some affectionate behaviors between husband and wife. It would be too embarrassing if the parents were around. This thing cannot be dealt with. Living with parents is really uncomfortable.”

As he said this, Luo Shao waved his hands, indicating that he really couldn’t accept this.

“So, you don’t support young people not living with their parents after getting married, right?”

The reporter asked Luo Shao

“No, it depends on the individual. If you can accept it, then live with your parents.”

“If you can’t accept it personally, then you won’t live with your parents. The main thing is to treat people and things.”

“There is no support or disapproval. Generally speaking, it still depends on your own living habits.”

Luo Shao’s answer is right. He does not set himself as a standard for others.

Anyway, he just expressed his personal thoughts, and does not mean that everyone should do the same.

There must be many young couples who are like this. I also can’t accept living with my parents after marriage.

“Also, if your mother and wife have a conflict, who will you choose to help?”

“ah?”

Facing this problem, Luo Shao looked at Guan Xiaotong beside him with a smile.

“This, this, this, I will definitely help Xiao Tong. When the mother-in-law and Xiao Tong quarreled, I designated to help the daughter-in-law.”

“Hahaha~” Guan Xiaotong was amused by Luo Shao’s answer.

Because Luo Shao has no mother, there is no such thing as a bad relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

“No, if you are like ordinary people, you have your own parents who are still alive, and you and Xiaotong get married, and she quarrels with your mother, who will you help?”

Faced with such questions, Luo Shao was also helpless. Someone would always ask.

“In fact, the quarrel between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is mainly about men, right?”

Luo Shao expressed his thoughts

“why?”

The reporter asked Luo Shao

“You see, your mother was pregnant with you for ten months, and your wife was pregnant with you for ten months.”

“It turns out that my mother and wife are arguing so much because of you. The root of the problem is men.”

Luo Shao’s words also made many male compatriots fall into deep thought and listen carefully to Luo Shao’s analysis.

“Many men are like this. One is their mother and the other is their wife. No matter how much they help, they can’t get it right. I don’t know how to deal with this matter.”

“For example, when it comes to cooking, your wife wants to eat braised pork, but your mother makes steamed fish. What should a man do at this time?”

Luo Shao asked a hypothetical question.

Guan Xiaotong and reporters also listened to see how he handled it.

“Faced with this kind of problem, many men first think that something is wrong with their wives. Mom has already cooked the fish, but you have to eat braised pork. Do you have to make it again? Or not eating”

“Such a reaction from a man will definitely cause conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.”

“My personal opinion is that my mother cooked steamed fish and my wife wanted to eat braised pork. As a man, I can tell my mother that I want to eat braised pork. Isn’t that the end?”

“At this time, if you tell your mother like this, the most she will do is nag you a few words, and then go and do it for you.”

“Similarly, when the wife is cooking, she is cooking braised pork, and the mother wants to eat steamed fish. At this time, the man should tell his wife,”I want to eat steamed fish,” and the wife will just give you a look and then do it.”

“Of course, there is also a situation where if a man says this, the mother may not do it, but if she doesn’t do it, the mother or wife will also give reasons for not doing it; for example, there are no ingredients at home; if you go to buy it at this time Yes, the dinner time will be postponed for an hour or two and will be done tomorrow.”

Many people can understand what Luo Shao said.

“In fact, to put it bluntly, if your mother wants to eat, tell your wife that you want to eat; if your wife wants to eat, tell your mother that you want to eat.”

“Whether the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is serious or not depends on how the man handles it”

“Instead of siding with your mother or wife when facing this kind of problem, this is wrong, because no matter which side you stand on, the people on the other side will not be happy.”

“This has to be handled well. You are not saying that as a man, I am already very tired after going out to work for a day. When I get home, I have to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which makes it even more tiring.”

“This is just an excuse to escape; because if the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not resolved earlier, the conflicts will only become more serious, which will only cause you more trouble in the future.”

Many young people have heard this, which is understandable, but some married people actually still feel that what Luo Shao said is not entirely correct. In their view, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not so simple to handle.

“This is also one of the reasons why I don’t live with my parents after marriage, as I just said.”

“After all, our parents’ generation lives together with our generation, and their living habits are different, so naturally there will be more conflicts and quarrels; this is inevitable, unless one party makes a big concession, and the other party also makes a lot of concessions. Be sensible so that there will be no conflicts.”


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