How to Thrive in the ’60s

If it really succeeds, let alone Gu Huaiqing taking a son home, even if he brings back all of Zhang Chunni's two sons, she is not afraid.

It's a big deal to spend a little more time to raise Zhang Chunni's two sons, so that they can only listen to her and Mingzhu's words in the future, so that when Mingzhu gets married, she also has the support of her parents' family, and she will never suffer in life.

"Sister, let's talk about it... Every family's situation is different, and children's temperament is different. I still don't know how to teach it."

The woman obviously had scruples and refused to speak for a long time.

In fact, if you think about it carefully, it is not difficult to understand.

This woman has an extraordinary bearing and will have troubles again. She must have a good reputation in the unit. In addition, she has such a good relationship with her stepson on the surface, and outsiders will praise her for her mother's heart.

If she really taught her stepson attentively, and she was good for her stepson from the bottom of her heart, then she would definitely not hide it, and she would definitely openly tell how she got along with her stepson on weekdays.

But she was obviously hiding her bad intentions, so that she could not resist by holding her stepson and her husband in the palm of her hand. Now that Zhou Mingjuan was begging her for advice, how could she say it.

Besides, in order to maintain her 'mother' image, how could she destroy herself and teach the strangers she met for the first time how to handle her stepson.

Fortunately, this woman now has her request...

Wanting to understand this, Zhou Mingjuan went over to the door, sat opposite the woman, and whispered confidently:

"Sister Chen, I don't lie to you. I only gave birth to one daughter, and I will live for my daughter for the rest of my life. My man is going to pick up the son in front of me. Although only one of the two sons will be picked up, but I Not happy in my heart.

Our family’s situation is different from other families’. My man didn’t save money before. When we divorced, all the property was given to the previous one. Now the family’s money is all that I have worked hard to save over the years. Yes, I just wanted to make a dowry for my daughter in the future, so that it would be easier for her to straighten her back at her husband's house.

Sister Chen, tell me... Now he wants to take the son in front of him back and fight for the family property with my daughter in the future, so my daughter will be in a lot of trouble. Sister Chen, to be honest, I am not only worried that he will take away my daughter's property, but I am also worried that after he has established a firm foothold at home, he will take advantage of my daughter in the future because he is the man in the family! If that's the case, my daughter won't even have a family after she gets married..."

Zhou Mingjuan spoke with sincerity, with tears in her eyes, frowning and complaining, not to mention how pitiful.

The woman rolled her eyes in the corner where Zhou Mingjuan could not see, and secretly scolded Zhou Mingjuan for being shameless.

The shit's family property is all she has worked so hard to save over the years. Without her man, how could she be qualified to be the director of the hospital, where would a little doctor go to save the family property?

Besides, even if a man divorces his previous daughter-in-law, the child born between the two is always the seed of a man. I have never heard of the fact that a child born to an original spouse cannot inherit his father's property.

When she heard the little comrade talk about the family, she was so shocked that she was speechless. It is not uncommon to have a vicious stepmother in this world, but such a biological father who is inferior to a beast is too rare.

To ask her to say that the couple could not have a son for so many years, it was all retribution!

The woman endured the dismay and sighed with Zhou Mingjuan for a long time, then lowered her voice and said:

"Sister, I can't give you any ideas. Let's get together and gossip. I'll talk about it casually, and you can just listen to it. When you go back out this door, we have to forget it."

Zhou Mingjuan's eyes lit up, and her attitude became more and more kind, "Sister Chen, isn't the gathering of women's families together just to pass the time by gossiping and gossip, who can really keep it in mind!"

The woman nodded with satisfaction, took Zhou Mingjuan's hand and said, "Sister, if I were you, I wouldn't wait for your man to pick up the child.

You think, anyway, he is determined to take a child home, but you can't stop it, why don't you do it a little bit, and do it yourself?

You take the initiative, go to contact the children in private first, and then choose a soft-tempered one to bring back to raise them. In this way, you can not only lose a good reputation, but also choose a good stepson for yourself. Moreover, the child is brought home by you, and he will have to be close to you at home in the future. Even if your man thinks the child is soft-natured, he can't refute your face like choosing a piggy and then come back with a thorn. Do you think this is the truth? "

Zhou Mingjuan nodded, feeling that this woman's scheming was really deep, and taking a small step back turned passive into active, gained a good reputation, and people couldn't pick it out!

The means are really great.

"One more point, you don't have to worry about your stepson not getting close to you in the future, it's your own, and when the child is older, he will only get close to his own daughter-in-law. Take 10,000 steps back and say, even if the child wants to get close to the filial elders, and his own father My mother is in the first place, we should at least be in third place.

However, as long as you let him know that he has to rely on your breath to live in that family, he will not dare to be unfilial to you. Even when you're older in the future, you can use other methods to restrain him, so that he doesn't dare not be nice to you, dare not be nice to your daughter..."

These words hit Zhou Mingjuan in the deepest part of her heart. She couldn't help grasping the woman's hand and hurriedly asked, "Sister Chen, what should I do?"

"You have to know that the child has the final say about the family. If he wants to stay at home, he has to sever ties with his biological mother and write a statement of severance, otherwise you can send him back at any time, His brother was brought in to be raised at home. Let him understand that it is also a stepmother for others, and it is the same for anyone you raise, it is not necessary for him.

After breaking the connection there, you can ask him to write a letter of guarantee to ensure that he will regard you as his biological mother and will give you retirement in the future. With this guarantee and the statement of severing the relationship, if he dares to be unfilial in the future, you can take it out and report him to the unit at any time, causing him to lose his job. .

Also, if you find a job for him in the future, you can place him under your man, or under your old man, marry him a more honest daughter-in-law, and arrange the job in your hospital, just in your eyes The son is low, and the work of these two couples is under your supervision. Think about it, does he dare to treat you and your daughter bad? "

Zhou Mingjuan: "..."

This is really killing people without blood!

Zhou Mingjuan could already imagine that if all these tricks were used, Zhang Chunni's son would never be able to turn the palm of her hand in this life.

This simply takes out the backbone of that brat without domestication, and makes him a slave to her and Mingzhu for the rest of his life.