Save the Bachelor of Heaven

"Mr. Zhang, we don't know much, and you really laughed at me." Mi Tao's father said in embarrassment, "Girl, it's my father's fault, so I shouldn't say that about you.

In the future, if you are bullied, tell your father and mother, and your father and mother will help you get justice. "

"Yeah." Mi Tao nodded and cried out of emotion.

"Okay, okay~" Zhang Xueer hugged her in her arms and comforted her softly.

...

After parting with Xiang Nan, Xia Junshan returned home.

"What's going on, exactly?" Nan Li asked concerned.

"Don't mention it, it's all because of your daughter's good work." Xia Junshan held back his anger and told the whole story, "When Zhong Yi told me about this just now, I didn't know where to put my embarrassing face."

"No way, at Huanhuan's age, he has learned to form cliques to bully his classmates?" Nan Li said in amazement after hearing this.

"What do you think? And Zhong Yi told me that this is not the first time. Before, Huanhuan wooed her classmates and isolated Mi Tao together, not talking to her or playing with her.

Teacher Zhang has already warned once that other children have changed, but our Huanhuan has made it worse. "Xia Junshan sighed and said, "She deliberately didn't send the "Letter to Parents" to Mi Tao. "

"How did she become like this?" Nan Li was also shocked.

"It's not all because of you, you have to compare her with Mi Tao. She hates studying and your way of doing it, so she hates Wu Jiwu, and she hates Mi Tao too." Xia Junshan Reluctantly said.

"How can it be so serious, who didn't compare with others when they were in school?" Nan Li questioned.

"Huanhuan's tolerance is different from other children." Xia Junshan explained, repeating what Xiang Nan said, "I asked her to do homework before, and she could cry until she vomited. Can your ability to withstand pressure be good?"

"Then what should I do? I can't say, I can't be forced, so I just let her go like this?" Nan Li said depressed after hearing this.

Huanhuan's internal drive is almost zero. As long as she doesn't look at her, she has no intention of studying at all. As far as her grades are concerned, even if she can go to junior high school under the nine-year compulsory system, she will be a mess in the future senior high school entrance examination.

Therefore, for her future, she must not let herself go.

But her ability to resist pressure is so weak. Whenever she is said to force her, her mentality is twisted to the point of bullying her classmates.

In this way, it's really hard to care about it, and it's really embarrassing.

When Xia Junshan heard her question, he couldn't help being speechless for a while.

"Okay, let's not talk about the study, let's solve the current matter first." He waved his hand and said, "Tomorrow, Huanhuan must apologize to Mi Tao, and promise that this kind of thing will never happen again."

Nan Li nodded, this matter should indeed be done first.

But children's learning is still a big problem.

Before, they only thought about happy education to make their children happy, but ignored the frustration education.

It's all right now, the child's pampering problem has been developed. If you manage any more, you won't be obedient at all. It's terrible!

...

A few days later, the Xia family had breakfast.

"Mom, you don't need to send Huanhuan off today, I will do it myself." Nan Li said.

"It's okay, your work is important, I'll just send it off." Zhao Na waved her hand.

"No, I have to give it away." Nan Li insisted.

"What's wrong, this is?" Zhao Na was a little puzzled.

"Huanhuan is going to apologize to Mi Tao today." Nan Li explained.

Xia Huanhuan's face froze upon hearing this.

"Why, Mi Tao pushed Huanhuan first?" Zhao Na asked puzzled.

"You let her tell herself, why did Mi Tao push you?" Nan Li looked at Xia Huanhuan and asked.

"How do I know?" Xia Huanhuan asked, blinking.

"Still lying! Teacher Zhong told Dad yesterday that you sent the "Letter to Parents", why did you bypass Mi Tao and not send it to her? Why did you unite with your classmates to isolate her?

You are engaging in school violence, do you know that? Seeing that she refused to admit her mistake, Nan Li couldn't help scolding her.

"It's not that serious. It's normal for children to be a little awkward." Zhao Na immediately smoothed things over.

"Mom, this matter is very serious." Xia Junshan waved his hand and said, "Zhong Yi told me yesterday that if Huanhuan persists in his obsession and makes mistakes again and again, he will be reported to the school and will be recorded in the final growth handbook. a sum.

At that time, Hanlin Middle School should not think about it, Fengfan Middle School will accept it or not. "

"So serious?" Zhao Na was startled.

"Huanhuan, did you hear that, you must realize your mistake in this matter, and never make it again. Otherwise, you will be in danger." Nan Li scolded.

"Why do you all talk to Mi Tao? So what if she studies well, why do you always compare me with her? The teacher said that students should evaluate their overall quality, and I am versatile. Why don't you praise me?" Xia Huanhuan cried.

"Did we praise you less before? When did you win awards for singing and hosting, and your father and mother didn't praise you?" Nan Li said angrily, "Now you can't bear to praise other children? You are jealous of others and form groups to bully you." People, did your parents usually teach you this way?"

"Huanhuan, it's not that Mom and Dad don't praise you. The key points of the high school entrance examination and college entrance examination are neither singing nor hosting, but only the test results." Xia Junshan also explained, "Although you are versatile, if you don't do well in the high school entrance examination or college entrance examination, It also has no good future.

Mom and Dad are also doing it for your own good, so I advise you to work hard and learn from Mi Tao. How can you hate Mi Tao just because of this? "

"Since you know singing, hosting the high school entrance examination, and not taking the college entrance examination, why did you let me learn it? Now that I can't keep up with my grades, you started to teach me! Why didn't you tell me?" Xia Huanhuan sobbed.

Hearing their daughter's complaint, Nan Li and Xia Junshan also felt pain in their faces.

Indeed, they supported and encouraged Huanhuan to sing and host at the beginning, and they even helped her enroll in training classes for this reason.

As a result, now they let her give up singing and hosting, and catch up with her grades, which is indeed unfair to her.

"Huanhuan, Mom and Dad are wrong. We are parents for the first time, and we have no experience. We just want to give you a happy childhood, so we have always been arrogant and indulgent to you. Habits are like killing children. Parents are wrong.

But now as long as we make good corrections, everything can still be saved. Huanhuan, you are only ten years old, and there are infinite possibilities in the future. Mom and Dad believe that as long as you are willing to work hard, the future must be bright. "Xia Junshan thought for a while and said.

Nan Li also nodded.

Huanhuan is their first child. She and Xia Junshan became parents for the first time, and they didn't know how to raise their children. As a result, they were poisoned by the so-called "Happy Education". They only wanted to make their children happy, but they didn't cultivate her self-discipline and the courage to take responsibility. and a positive attitude.

As a result, when the daughter grows up, she becomes a giant baby who has no ability to resist pressure. When things happen, she only knows to cry, escapes and shirks responsibility.

At the point of educating children, they can be said to be a complete failure.

Xia Huanhuan reluctantly nodded when she heard what her father and mother said.