South China Sea Myth

I listened and was stunned. I once wrote in an article about how they were in love. This is what the employees of her original unit said, and she herself recognized it, and her wife Lao Tao also confirmed it. I met the director of this factory back in 1986, when she was the director of a leather goods factory and wanted to place an advertisement in Love magazine. She was recommended by a friend and met me, who was working as a journalist at a magazine. Since she was always happy in the face of any difficulties and smiled openly, I also asked a female reporter from a provincial newspaper to write a reportage entitled "The Happy Female Factory Director". I can't think of a happy female factory director, and my marriage is not happy.

I heard that Director Tian and Lao Tao have been married for decades, and they have never made a big noise. When the middle-aged factory director Tian wants to divorce Lao Tao? I am very confused. So, I asked Director Tian, "I don't understand, didn't you love you very much, and why are you getting divorced now?"

She didn't smile this time, her expression was very serious: "Our so-called husband and wife love is an illusion. Actually, we are at odds with each other. There was a grievance that had weighed on my heart for many years, and I never had a chance to vent it. You know, in that era when politics was the first place, I was transformed from a young woman from a bad background into a 38 Red Banner bearer, a female factory director, and I dare not love the old Tao who was born red and purple as a worker? Do I dare to say that I am dissatisfied with the political marriage that is related to my future? Also, you know, my two children were not very old at that time, and after the divorce, I could not afford to shoulder the burden of the family alone, and I did not have time to grasp the work. But now it is different, since the reform and opening up, people's ideological concepts have changed, divorce has been understood by the society, and I am not afraid of the pressure of public opinion. Besides, I'm retired, running a private business, and I'm free. My two daughters are married, so I don't have to worry about it. Anyway, I have no worries. "

Then, Director Tian revealed her marriage to us. Her father was a small capitalist in the old society and died a long time ago. Her mother was the daughter of a wealthy man, highly educated, and had been teaching at the school. In the "Cultural Revolution", it is necessary to bring down the five types of land, rich, anti, bad, and right. Her family was classified as the Black Five, and naturally it was impacted. At that time, Tian Xiaoge was in a technical school, and the school came to the workers' propaganda team. Among them, there is a team member named Master Tao, a senior technician in a textile machinery factory, he doesn't know many words, but he is very polite to the teachers of the school, and the students and teachers have a good impression of him. Tian Xiaoge's composition is not good, and sometimes he has to be scolded by individual students, so he is sullen all day long. When Master Tao found out, he said to Xiao Tian in front of the whole class: "You can't help yourself, you can choose the path, Xiao Tian, you have to cheer up."

Tian Xiaoge was ill, and under the care of Lao Tao, he was not sent to the countryside, and was directly assigned from a technical school to a street-run factory. Lao Tao is very familiar with the secretary of this factory. Therefore, Xiao Tian's mother was full of gratitude to Lao Tao, knowing that Lao Tao was an old single, and the family was bitter and hateful, and he could be called a red seedling. Mother said to Tian Xiaoge: "Xiaoge, the ingredients are not good, so you have suffered enough." Master Tao's ingredients are good, so you can marry him. "

In the era of politics, in order to stabilize his life in the future, Xiao Tian married Lao Tao. Before the combination, Lao Tao could not see any other problems except for his poor appearance and too old age. After getting married, the truth was revealed, Lao Tao likes to wear liberation shoes, and when he takes off his shoes, the house is full of smell, and he doesn't like to wash his feet. At that time, when men and women talked about friends, before they got married, there were many advantages revealed, and the disadvantages were covered up, and after marriage, they were exposed. They lived in two small rooms on the second floor of a building on Hualou Street. Tian was in night college at that time, and sometimes studied at home with a male classmate named Han Guang. Tao said to them, "There are many people in this building, and it is very noisy, so you should close the door and study." "

Lao Tao closed the door, but quietly stood at the door eavesdropping on what was being said inside, and looked in through the crack in the wooden door. Unexpectedly, once Tian suddenly got up and opened the door, Lao Tao stood at the door and was not alert, but people took advantage of it and hit a bullae on the head. Tao's face was embarrassed, he couldn't get off the stage, and his head was buried in the crotch of his pants. Tian, in his heart, is like breaking the five-flavor bottle, the taste is bitter and uncomfortable, there are words of suffering, and he pretends to be smiling, which is really helpless. In this case, Tao is twenty years older than Tian. They walked together on the road, one tall and fat, with a red and white face; One was short and thin, with a wrinkled forehead.

Someone who knew the director of the factory said, "As the director of the factory, you finally have time to accompany your father out for a walk." Lao Tao listened, and his face was gloomy. Tian cried and laughed: "Don't shout, this is my husband." When others heard this, they hurriedly said, "I'm sorry, I'm sorry." Afterwards, Lao Tao said to Tian: "I won't accompany you to the street in the future." Later, Tian Xiaoge dressed up at home, and Tao sarcastically said: "You are not young yet, you have to dress up like a girl." "

At night, he wants to do the things of husband and wife, but he is not angry. Originally, if he couldn't do it, he wouldn't do it, but he waited for Tian to fall asleep and shook Tian awake. Tian was very annoyed and couldn't hold it back, so he said to him, "Can you let me sleep well." He said, "Do you think I'm old, tell you, I just can't let you sleep well, and I want you to fool around outside." During that time, Tian Xiaoge's factory production tasks were heavy, and he often worked overtime.

Tian found an excuse and moved to live in the factory. As soon as you leave home. People feel very relaxed, and she realizes that an unhappy marriage is like a cage. However, Lao Tao is not a vegetarian, so he comes to the factory every once in a while to see what she is doing. Tian lives in the factory director's office, which has an iron bed. Tao sometimes just stays in and doesn't leave. After all, it is a husband and wife with a clear price, and it makes no sense to drive him away, so let him stay. Two people squeeze into a small iron bed, and if they don't pay attention, they will fall off. Director Tian slept restlessly and was so upset that he was worried. The next day, Director Tian went to work without energy, and the woman who liked to joke had something to say: "Hey, Director Tian, Master Tao didn't have such a narrow bed last night, he didn't crush it, he didn't fall down?"